
Perfume on a Stranger’s Coat
Can I? I might need ears of wax—
A Mother's Day tribute that expands the definition of nurturing beyond parenthood—honoring the childless who shape lives through teaching, mentoring, caring for pets, and offering unconditional guidance without expectation of return.
Plahm does something quietly radical with this Mother’s Day poem: he recenters the holiday around those it typically excludes. Rather than celebrating biological motherhood, he argues that nurturing is a human gift—not a parental one. The opening immediately reframes the occasion: “we also acknowledge those who are childless. / They are so important in the lives of others— / irreplaceable.” The catalog that follows—nieces, nephews, students, employees, pets, “all the neighbors’ little beloved”—expands the circle of care to encompass every form of chosen devotion. The confessional pivot (“As a never father, / I’ve been there”) roots the universal in the deeply personal, lending the poem autobiographical weight. The phrase “without hesitation / or recompense” quietly elevates these caregivers above transactional relationships—theirs is love freely given. The closing designation of such people as “a universal human gift” achieves the rare feat of coining a phrase that feels both fresh and immediately true. This is a poem of inclusion, gratitude, and gentle redefinition.
A warm, inclusive poem that succeeds through its generosity of spirit rather than technical fireworks. Plahm’s decision to honor the childless on Mother’s Day is both socially perceptive and emotionally courageous—the phrase “As a never father” carries remarkable vulnerability in just four words. The expanding catalog of care recipients (from nieces to pets to “all the neighbors’ little beloved”) mirrors the poem’s argument that nurturing radiates outward without boundaries. The plain-spoken diction is appropriate to the subject—this is a poem that practices what it preaches, offering warmth without ornamentation. Where the piece could push further is in its imagery; the language remains largely declarative, and a few concrete scenes of nurturing-in-action might have given the abstraction more texture. The closing phrase “a universal human gift” is the poem’s strongest moment—simple, true, and worthy of repetition. A quietly important piece that says something many people need to hear.
On Mother’s Day,
we also acknowledge those who are childless.
They are so important in the lives of others –
irreplaceable.
Nieces, nephews, students, associates,
employees, clients, the adopted.
Not to mention pets –
Cats, dogs,
and all the neighbors’ little beloved.
All have come to rely on them,
to be taught and uplifted,
to be cared for –
without hesitation
or recompense.
I’ve seen it.
I’ve witnessed it.
As a never father,
I’ve been there.
People and animals
know who to look for
when a little love,
a little nurturing,
a little guidance
is needed.
A nod, today,
to those who support
and shape our lives.
I think
they are
a universal human gift.




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