
Perfume on a Stranger’s Coat
Can I? I might need ears of wax—
A culinary metaphor extended into philosophy—using the slow simmer of a sauce as an analogy for the patience, mystery, and gradual revelation that constitute a life lived with curiosity and emotional care.
Plahm opens with a deceptively simple question—”What’s the secret sauce? / To life”—then immediately disarms with “Hahaa, I don’t know / Yet.” That “Yet” is the poem’s thesis in miniature: life is an ongoing process whose flavors haven’t finished developing. The simmering metaphor unfolds in multiple directions. First, it’s emotional: “The simmering sauce of emotion and feeling.” Then temporal: “The secret sauce of patience” and “the future.” Then relational: simmering as “Protection,” a “distance / I maintain / But hold as important.” This last reading is the poem’s subtlest move—the slow heat of simmering becomes a metaphor for maintaining boundaries that paradoxically deepen intimacy, keeping something “closely held” rather than boiling it over into chaos. The image of “Our sanities / Little pots of sauce / On the stove” is both comic and poignant—each person tending their own fragile emotional brew. The poem’s conversational tone (“Hahaaaa! / I’ll keep stirring”) keeps the philosophy accessible and the speaker likeable, a chef-philosopher who admits ignorance while stirring toward understanding. The closing wish—”What will life taste like? / A chef’s kiss / I hope”—refuses grand conclusions in favor of culinary optimism: keep simmering, keep tasting, keep hoping.
A likeable, accessible poem that sustains its central metaphor with charm if not always with depth. The simmering conceit works on multiple levels—emotional patience, relational boundaries, existential curiosity—and Plahm navigates between them with characteristic conversational ease. The self-deprecating laughter (“Hahaa,” “Hahaaaa!”) is well-deployed, preventing the philosophical questions from becoming ponderous and keeping the speaker approachable. The image of individual sanities as little pots of sauce is the poem’s most original moment—simultaneously funny, tender, and true. The notion of simmering as protection (“A distance / I maintain”) adds unexpected psychological nuance to what could have been a purely whimsical conceit. Where the poem is less successful is in its development; the metaphor is established early and then circled rather than deepened, with several stanzas restating the same idea in slightly different terms. The “secret sauce” repetition in the opening creates good rhythm but the returns don’t always add new layers. The closing “chef’s kiss” is a warm, contemporary gesture that suits the tone but feels slightly predictable. Still, the poem achieves what it sets out to do: it invites the reader to be patient with life’s slow process, and it models that patience through its own unhurried, good-humored unfolding.
What’s the secret sauce?
To life.
Hahaa, I don’t know
Yet.
The simmering sauce of emotion and feeling.
The secret sauce of patience.
The secret sauce of the future.
The secret sauce of …
All we savor.
Is the heat rising?
Are there possibilities?
The simmering
Brings forth many questions.
A closely held belief
A pot of humanity
Protected
The simmering is
Protection
A distance
I maintain
But hold as important
That slow heat
Informs
Flavors
And keeps us
Sane.
Rich
Complex
Life
Is it a reward?
For the flavors we gift?
Or absorb?
Or are we merely
Stirring the pot?
Our sanities
Little pots of sauce
On the stove.
Simmering
Going round and round
Hopefully
The pot will bring fruition
And
I’ll find out.
Hahaaaa!
I’ll keep stirring
I’m curious.
What will life taste like?
A chef’s kiss
I hope.




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